Who has not ever attempted to piece together a Jig Saw Puzzle?
I used to love them when I was in my teens. In fact I remember I used to glue some of them to pieces of cardboard. and this way I could view my handy work for a longer time. I could spend days and weeks working on them if circumstances allowed me to, Mostly I would break it up and place it back in the box, especially if I was annoyed or allowed anyone to get in the way of my hobby. I realise now I was the only person affected by doing this, no one else ever batted an eyelid. Many times after staring at these puzzles for hours I would not be able to ever think about the picture ever again after spending the time making it.
Recently on my trip to Canada, I met a lovely man who happened to be the father of a friend of mine, and he said he is planning to come to Ireland one day, as he would like to visit the Cliffs of Moher. Apparently he worked with a lady from these parts and she told him of the beauty of this magnificent place on the West coast of Ireland.
A couple of days when I returned home, I visited a friend to catch up on the recent trip and she had a Jig Saw puzzle on the coffee table. Without even thinking I started to get involved and began to solve this puzzle, unasked. It was like I was meant to help Mel with it. As I was leaving she handed me a new puzzle to take with me. The picture on the front of the box is of course "The Cliffs of Moher".
Now a couple of things came to mind, firstly the Universe is making a connection to visit the Cliffs again, and secondly maybe the message was make your own puzzle and stop interfering in another persons' puzzle.
So home I came, box in hand, and separated the pieces so that I could build the outline. Not as easy as I remember. The cliffs are being assembled on the dining table, and I notice who ever comes into the house has a little attempt too, without asking. Everyone can see what I'm doing, I never thought how it would be open to everyone, and I just opened the box and started it without thinking of the consequences. It is an interesting journey to observe, even down to having myself eat my meals at the couch because I couldn't make room at the table, if I have people over. Each day I get up and will attempt another piece in the puzzle. What I find interesting is how different the puzzle looks at different times of the day, when in different light and when I am experiencing different emotions or different moods. There are so many shades in the deep blue sea in this puzzle and how some days I will place a couple of pieces in their places and feel like I have achieved so much, and then I return later or the next day only to discover that they don't actually fit properly and what have I been thinking, and I find myself muttering silly things to myself.
Then there are times when I want to pack it up in the box and give it back. At other times people would come and sit down and rest their arms on the table and the pieces would stick to their skin, and because it's not their master of works, they really don't care that you have to redo the work because they didn't invest any time into the project.
The real wisdom for me is this, This puzzle is like our lives. It comes with lots of little pieces that we have to gently fit in place, we attempt to make a duplicate picture as to what we are have envisaged. Like a dream or a goal!! Many days it will be easy, many days it will be tough, some days we will struggle, other days we won't bother at all. Pieces (information) will disappear and reappear out of no where.
Did you ever find you want something in your life finished so bad you are willing to squeeze the pieces of your life together so quickly and assume things are perfect even though you know deep down that it is not right? Only to discover you will have to redo the hard work you may have done the day before. There are days when you'll be glad of someone walking in and just getting on with helping you~unasked and uninvited. And guess what?, there will be times when someone walks in and with the best intentions of helping, they will drive you to distraction and you'll find yourself bubbling with anger, whilst remaining calm on the outside with a smile on your face. There will also be times that you think you have all the answers and strategies to complete it, only to discover you have been looking at someone else's picture and you would have never succeeded even if you stay awake 24 hours a day because that is their puzzle on the box and it was not meant for you. Sometimes we want to sort someone 's life quicker than we sort our own.
All in all, do the best you can and stick with it, Life is too precious to give up on particular projects, goals and relationships. And learn to love your puzzle of what your life is about. Minding our own business and energy can save us lots of grief. Stay calm and relaxed and create boundaries that no one can take pieces of your life and when the time is right eventually it all fits together Perfectly with lots of patience.
Another odd question I have is, "what happens when I finish it, what will I do then", so often in the past I might have sabotaged the ending so I didn't have to feel the joy of completion, like I've done thousands of times in my life, it was easier to see myself as a failure.
Anyway for now, I'm enjoying the puzzle making effort, the patience, the time to myself, the fun, and the bouts of laughter that I'm experiencing when my daughter sees me looking so serious over a few pieces of a jigsaw puzzle. Life is so much easier when we feel it's Fun. And as each piece begins to show the resemblance of what it is supposed to be in the picture, I feel a real sense of pride for my efforts. The beauty is no one has to know the struggle or the time or the bizarre journey between me and my puzzle with my efforts. I am grateful to be able to see and feel the pieces in my hands as there are many who do not have this privilege.
Namaste